I’m thinking that universities and conservatories need to set up a new class, that covers a multitude of things. Some, I know, are beginning to understand that they need to teach young musicians how to survive; it’s not just “Out you go now … win that audition and enjoy life!” That doesn’t happen for everyone. So a survival skills class seems necessary these days.
Included in that class —something I think is rarely taught‐ should be musicians’ etiquette. I’m finding that far too many don’t know that little dos and don’ts of our somewhat confusing world. I do have to remind myself on occasion, in fact.
Recently I’ve heard of or observed some major rule breakers. Not following simple rules can alienate yourself from your section, another section, the conductor, or even the entire orchestra.
And it’s so easy to stay in the safe zone, if only you understand what not to do.
Yes, some of the rules may seem silly to some of you … take ‘em or leave ‘em. You choose. (But I highly recommend you seriously consider them if you are on tenure track!)
So check out my Musicians’ Etiquette page. Feel free to add to it. (Feel free to argue, too, but I’m probably not going to change my mind about most of this stuff.)
Someday I’ll tell some stories (I think I have already) … even tattling on myself for some very stupid things I’ve done.
Now it’s time to get ready to teach … which makes me remember that I should really write up a page for that someday. I hate to be and uptight old lady who thinks manners matter, but … well … they do.